Testimonials

-Todd F. (Adoptee)

- Allison F. (Adoptee’s Spouse)

Why the Need to Search?

“Finding my birth family was the single most important moment of my entire life. It was (as) if I 'd been holding my breath my entire life and for the first time I could let it out."

— Rebecca Dolen (Adult adoptee)
“I just love filling out the medical history questionnaire at a new doctor's office; the one that asks what diseases your parents suffered from. How about the question: What age was your father when he died? How should I know? The great state of so and so won't tell me. Not knowing one's medical history is especially annoying to those of us adoptees who have biological children. What am I passing on? Will I be around for the wedding?

— Stephen J Betchen, D.S.W.
“An adoptee's curiosity about one's past is not a rejection of one's present nor a sign of happiness or dysfunction. It's exploring what should be the adoptee's already--knowledge of one's personal history and family members."

— Anonymous

“Finding my birth family was the single most important moment of my entire life. It was (as) if I 'd been holding my breath my entire life and for the first time I could let it out."